No matter how much you love someone else and they you, you can’t expect someone to help you with what you want to do in this life. Now this doesn’t mean that you can’t ask for help and you need to isolate yourself.
On the other hand the healthy thing to understand is that the best thing you can do for your loved ones is to take complete responsibility for your goals.
When you expect your goals to be a priority for someone else that’s when you invite trouble. Everyone is living a life of their own.
No matter how much they love you, your goals can’t be a priority to them!
This doesn’t mean that they don’t love you. It means that you’re strong enough to be accountable and responsible for the goals you want to achieve.
Don’t expect someone to care about your goals much as you do. If you put this burden on your loved ones you’re expecting too much and it’s not healthy or fair!
One of the best advice I’ve got in life is no one’s coming to save you and you don’t need saving.
You are capable of doing everything you want, you can figure things out. Loving someone doesn't mean putting your expectations on them.
Instead it means loving them by allowing them to pursue their goals while you pursue yours with full accountability.